I've been reflecting a bit about Thanksgivings past and how Thanksgiving originated as a time to give thanks for a bountiful harvest.
Over time, Thanksgiving Day has morphed into the unofficial start of the Holiday Season and again into a time where individuals and retailers pray for a bountiful harvest, at least in terms of Black Friday sales and savings.
Yes, I've been out with the masses in the early hours of Black Friday hoping to score my desired bounty in years past. There are great savings to be had by getting up early and venturing out.
I think back with treasured memories of Thanksgivings at my Grandmother's in New Jersey with uncles, aunts, cousins and Grandma's friends. Most came in time for Thanksgiving Dinner, but folks were coming and going throughout the day, as well. Thanksgiving began with 7:00AM Mass at Grandma's church. Giving thanks for what we had, remembering those who were no longer among us and asking help for those who had little.
I also think back to a later time when I worked in retail and the store was actually closed to the public on the day after Thanksgiving (for the annual inventory). There was no such thing as Black Friday back then.
I remember working a split-shift for the phone company and, as the rest of the family had gone to Grandma's, dining alone. Not one of my favorite Thanksgivings!!! Nevertheless, I had plenty to give thanks for and did so before feasting on a Swanson's Turkey Dinner (or two) and a slice of Mom's pumpkin pie.
It's critical to not lose sight of giving thanks for a bountiful harvest not just on Thanksgiving Day but every day. The bountiful harvest being the loving and caring family, friends, neighbors we have and even the strangers we may encounter. Will Rogers said that “A stranger is just a friend I haven't met yet.”
I've met a good number of people since I began attending the Town Board meetings … people on "both sides of the aisle" and those aligned with neither "party". They are all good people trying to do good for the Town. We may not agree on the issues but there's hopefully a mutual respect or at least a tacit agreement to disagree. The end goals may be the same but the means may be different, which is fine. The goals may be different as well. That's also fine - life would be extremely boring if we all thought the same.
East Greenbush has been my home for the past 26 years and I am thankful and proud to be here. No city, town or village is perfect. No city, town or village is without problems. Mistakes have been made in the past and mistakes will likely be made in the future. Hopefully, any future mistakes will be minor and different ones.
Winston Churchill said "Those that fail to learn from history, are doomed to repeat it." On the other hand, Satchel Paige said "Don't look back—something might be gaining on you."
I much prefer to follow Churchill's advice rather than Paige's, at least concerning our Town. Let's learn from the past, but not dwell upon it. Let's hope that people channel their energy into things constructive rather than destructive.
There are many bright, talented, motivated and dedicated people living in East Greenbush. People who have, can, want to and will make a constructive difference in our Town.
If we want East Greenbush to move forward, we can make it happen. Things will move quicker if we work together rather than apart. We're all in the same boat called the Town of East Greenbush and we'll move further much more quickly by rowing in unison rather than by each doing their own thing.
Eldridge Cleaver said "You're either part of the solution or part of the problem."
I want to be part of the solution … which do you want to be?
Pete Stenson